Potency

“Always leave a place better than the way you found it.” I can hear my mom repeating this to me when I was growing up and even into adulthood. This was a small principle mentioned that helped me consider cleanliness and order. It was drilled in me so much that even to this day, if I travel to a hotel or an Airbnb where housekeeping is available, I still make an effort to tidy up and make the room presentable for housekeeping to do their job.

I have continued growing in this principle of leaving a place better than the way I found it with other areas of my life including my career, ministry, and other non-profit responsibilities. Principles can be manifold. What’s one of the lessons? Stewardship. Walking in stewardship causes us to manage resources well around us. The biggest takeaway for me has been that we carry potency. Think about the similarity of potency to potential. There is something so powerful, so unique, so lasting about us, where we can’t help leaving an imprint.

Like the fragrant smell of a beautiful ointment, perfume, or cologne, we can overwhelmingly impact an environment or with subtle notes leave hints. I think it is up to us and also reflective on what we bring that determines how we leave an environment better.

Brilliant ones, you and I are brilliant lights and uniquely potent. Release your potency and together, let’s continue making the world a better place.

Culture Risk

As a risk professional working with strategic risk in the private sector, it is my responsibility to understand existing risks and emerging risks that may have a negative impact upon my business. There is a risk that has recently taken the forefront. This risk has always existed, but now leaders are being challenged to grasp it. This risk is culture risk. What is culture risk? It is the threat or potential harm that takes place when there’s misalignment between an organization’s values and leader actions, employee behaviors, or organizational systems. What’s my definition of culture risk? It is the risk of damage when leaders fail to practice what they preach, allow inappropriate behavior to remain prevalent within the environment they lead, or allow systems and processes to become dysfunctional. It also relates when systems and processes are misaligned.

Why is culture risk appearing on everyone’s radar? Culture risk is a hot topic because it is the silent killer of any organization or effort. Over the past few years we have seen in the news breakdowns within all types of organizations because toxicity was allowed to exist within the culture. In hindsight individuals raised their hands and stated that there were problems related to culture. A breakdown in culture can expose an organization to all types of negative consequences including disengaged members, stunted growth, reputational damage, and even dissolution. Poor culture affects the bottom line. This concept of culture is not just applicable to Fortune 500 Companies or large institutions. This applies to small businesses, non-profits, religious institutions, and even familial relationships.

There’s a saying from Song of Songs that states, “its the small foxes that destroy the vine.” What does that mean? A fox is is not a ferocious animal. A fox is very unassuming but to a well producing vineyard, the fox is a destructive animal. Even a small fox has the ability to destroy a valuable vineyard. In context, small overlooked behaviors, habits, and ways of being impact culture and culture impacts the end goal you are seeking to achieve.

So why am I blogging about this topic? As leaders, whether we are leading at home, in business, charity, religious institutions, sports, schools, the military, or in the community, we must understand the impact of culture and the atmospheres created around us. We can not afford to become blind or turn our heads to matters or behaviors that exist around us. Brilliant leaders understand culture. Brilliant leaders guard culture. Brilliant leaders steward and drive culture. What are the things that you promote to ensure that your culture is positive? What are the things that you have failed to consider? What are the things that you are afraid to address? Do you have your finger on the pulse of your organization or the effort that you are leading? Do you have a way to identify, monitor, and manage what’s going on related to culture? How do you gain comfort that what you think of your environment is the reality? If someone raised their hand, would you listen and give them comfort to speak without retaliation? These are few questions to ponder when you are considering culture.

2020 is about building. Whatever you build, eventually a culture will evolve. A healthy culture shapes for healthy outcomes. Brilliant ones, lets stay alert as we are building and keep those beautiful vineyards from invading foxes that wreak destruction.

A Beehive Called Mediocrity

I recently encountered a beehive called mediocrity.  When you think of a beehive, you are presented two opportunities: one for sweetness and honey or another can be a painful attack. As a leader, you realize quickly that a decision must be made.  Do you become the ‘influencer/troubler’ (the person who stirs the beehive and leads the hive to new actions, beliefs, and ways of doing) or do you hear the collective cries that state “we’ve always done it this way” or " let us be”?  Will the outcome of your leadership produce honey like that which is found in the choicest of hives or leave a sharp bitter pain because of numerous stings? 

I am reminded of a wise teacher who spoke of entering a city.  He noted that he could not accomplish the work he was gifted to accomplish amongst the people because of unbelief and familiarity. Unbelief and familiarity become the pillars of mediocrity.  The teacher offered much to the people but the people settled for comfort.  They rejected his wise teachings and became a source of resistance to his leadership.  In turn, the teacher noted that he couldn’t accomplish work in that city. He quickly exited and pursued other opportunities.

As leaders we must discern whether our leadership in an opportunity or atmosphere has the potential for sweet honey and victory or bitterness and tragedy. There are risks at every corner and challenges in leadership.  No work of leadership is 100% victory at every moment but eventually there should be evidence that your presence as a leader creates beautiful synergies and impacts for positive outcomes.  Your leadership should be value add.  Are you connected with those who believe in you, your abilities, and what you stand for? If not, will your attempt of leadership bring disruption that stirs a hive to attack?  What will become of your attempts?

Some atmospheres will never change or accept what you bring. Some atmospheres are not hungry enough to step out of what has become a comfortable norm.   Take some time this week to assess whether you are connecting with people and atmospheres that receive your brilliance or attack your brilliance.  At some point you must be willing to shake the dust from your feet and move forward to the place where your gifts, leadership, and excellence are received and flourish the most. Take time today to consider if your gifts are tied because of mediocrity. What good is brilliant light if it is smothered by a pseudo darkness known as mediocrity.

iLead....

I like leading. I really do.  I recently gained an understanding that leadership is a value within my internal value system. It is an intricate part of who I am. I realized that I could stop apologizing for this trait. I have dissected this reality wanting to understand what was the driver behind my desire to lead.    “Oh you must be type A” or “wow, you are assertive” some might say.  Leadership can be associated with these sayings. Leadership can be associated with power and control. Some like to lead because it allows them to be out front. These are relevant factors related to leadership but I realized that power and control were not motivating factors for me.  As I began to look introspectively, I asked questions and finally came up with an answer as to what really drives my desire to lead.  Dictionary.com defines “lead” as to go before or with to show the way; conduct or escort.  I like the word escort.  An escort is a person who typically accompanies another on a journey with the desire to get the individual to a destination safely, informed, and empowered.   There is also typically a desire to show honor when you escort a person. This is what motivates me.  I love clarity and those who provide it. I love the feeling of being placed on a correct path towards a destination or having undergirded someone else on their path in excellence.    How are you escorting the world around you?  Do you realize that this is leadership? Do you realize that you can escort others in just about anything: in the workplace, at home, or in your community? Lead with knowledge related to your hobbies. Lead with your style and fashion. Lead with your beliefs. I am purposing to lead (escort) in this season. Thus iLead……. will you lead?